LOVE........"THE EMOTION"

When I goggled for a definition or meaning of Love, I found the following definition on Wikipedia.

“Love is an emotion of a strong affection and personal attachment. Love is also said to be a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection —"the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another". Love may describe compassionate and affectionate actions towards other humans, one's self or animals”.

The reason for Googling it now is that someone asked me the definition of love 4 years back. I was not able to answer to that question then. Hence I am trying to figure out the definition now.

For me definition of love is not much different from what I have found on Wikipedia. To me love is Unconditional…..it does not have the “Give and take” thing that drives the world. This unselfishness is what makes It difficult to comprehend and relate it to the selfish world we live in. Love of a mother to her child should top the list if there exist any.But to be honest listing them and giving ratings to the relationships where you Share Love, Receive Love, Give love,Create Love,Nurture Love,…….is actually  foolish idea of brain….and hence not recommended as one loves with heart not the Brain.

As darkness is experienced or felt by absence of light. Love can be experienced or felt by absence of hatred. It doesn’t matter….hate never comes in the picture and possibly this is why they call “LOVE IS BLIND”

A man never Falls in Love,He always rises in love.

But but but..........to love someone else you have to love yourself. Only those who love themselves can love others. In recent times I have started hating myself……..This is my effort to try loving myself back……and how it would be achieved………wondering!!!!!!!!!….this recalls me another law in physics:

The zeroth law of thermodynamics states that if two systems are in thermal equilibrium with a third system, they are also in thermal equilibrium with each other.

My interpretation of this law…….I love you……and You(readers) love me back…….so according to this law…..I love myself too thus maintaining the equilibrium (the Balance) within. On my journey to balance my life and loving myself back...........

As an end to this blog I would share something I had written for the love of my life.

 “I would always come back home to you” .I did say those words quite a few numbers of times to you. I never knew the depth of words I have been using nor did you. As a lost soul on the journey of life, I would ponder on things I see, things I perceive, even stop for some time and think about them. But the eternal truth would be that I have always seen you as an INSPIRATION POWERHOUSE. When I am down and out, don’t have any energy to stand, when things don’t go as it is planned. I look at you for some energy, some life to be induced into me again. I own this life to you , I could never bid you adieu , you are inseparable, You are part of my soul.